Helping You Is Killing Me

Pastors, Overseers, CEO’s and Business Owners, are you growing weary and about to throw in the towel because those who say they are called to serve and take care of you, really don’t know how to? Are you feeling alone and isolated because you find it difficult to be yourself around those who walk closely with you? After ministering, giving, teaching and leading, do those around you constantly take life from you instead of speak words of life and encouragement back to you? If you answered yes to any of the above questions, let me help you? I want to help you.

Armorbearer, Administrator, Secretary, Church Worker, Employee, Spouse, are you about to walk out and quit because you feel taken for granted and unappreciated? Have you been hurt while trying to do what God called you to do, yet you knew that He gave you that assignment? Do you sometimes feel that your life doesn’t matter? Hold on, there is hope. This book will help you. God has a plan for your life.

Each of us have a purpose in life, and serving is one of mine. I have been in ministry serving pastors for 19 years and I still love it. Someone once asked me the question, why do you like serving and giving so much? My response is always, “I see what the enemy has done. Through ignorance of servanthood, we have allowed the devil to creep into our midst and turn us into selfish, greedy people. No one wants to serve. Instead, everyone wants to be served. Meanwhile, as Christians march through the twenty-first century, our pastors are dying prematurely, marriages are being destroyed, relationships are falling apart, churches are splitting, leaders are being exposed and ridicule and our companies are going under – all because no one wants to die to themselves and serve. What the Church needs and what America needs is people with the courage to tell God, “Kill me so that I can live.”

If you really want your life to matter, get your copy of “Helping you is Killing Me.” It will encourage you to hold on to your promise and cling to your dream, vision and purpose. It doesn’t matter what position you hold in your church, on your job or in your community. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single. This book will help you. Don’t allow your passion and zeal to dwindle. “Helping you is Killing Me,” is about serving, giving, believing, loving and submitting.

  • Pastors, don’t you dare quit!
  • Business Owners and CEO’s, don’t you dare throw in the towel and leave!
  • Armorbearers, employees, church members, children, don’t you dare step outside of God’s will for your life!
THIS IS A TEST! Will you pass it? Do you want to pass it? Let me help you? Let’s stop the enemy. Purchase your copies of “Helping You Is Killing Me,” TODAY!


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What others are saying about Helping You Is Killing Me

I want to personally commend my brother Everett for having the courage and foresight in approaching this all important area of Ministry in the early days of this twenty-first century.
“Helping You Is Killing Me” is a must read book that every serious Armorbearer should read, analyze and take careful note of the principles and concerns that Everett took the time and the pain to mention in this writing. All of us in ministry, and Armorbearers in particular, would do well to learn from Everett’s errors and pay attention to his advice.

Bishop Neil C. Ellis
Senior Pastor
Mount Tabor Full Gospel Baptist Church
Nassau Bahamas

One of the greatest tools of servanthood and leadership is sacrifice. If you’re not willing to say to God “Kill me so I can live,” then you’re not ready for this book. Pastor Everett takes us on a journey that photographs how to serve, lead, submit, love and give in the Kingdom of God. If you are struggling with any of these photographs, listen to what Everett has to say. Not only will it bless you, it will encourage and motivate you. A must read!

Dr. Wanda A. Davis Turner
Preacher, Author, Musician
Everett Gates has written a practical but very real manual on the role of armor bearer. As stated, the idea of serving has fallen out of favor. Yet God is calling many to serve. Through this book those burdened to serve can find hope and fulfillment in their call. The words written here are from a man who walks this passion daily. This book is a life manual from a man who has lived the life.

Dr. J. Martin Taylor
Administrative Bishop
Church of God in Florida
Everett Gates taps into the great mystery of servanthood—revealing the joy and depths of a life of blessings and contentment. Searching hearts of armorbearers, Everett’s life lessons prepare and equip those choosing this high call, as well as bring encouragement and restoration to the most fainthearted. As a pastor, I have been the recipient of the prayers and support of so many who have stood in the gap for me, my family, and the Body of Christ and know and appreciate firsthand the sacrifices made by these great men and women. Tools like this one are essential for the building up of the saints for the work of ministry. I am thankful for this man of God, who not only chose to make this journey, but who has consistently stood through adversity in order for the Kingdom of God to advance on the earth.

Bishop Jim Bolin
Senior Pastor, Trinity Chapel
Powder Springs, GA
If you have a desire to be great in the Kingdom of God, you must first become a servant which is what you will find in “Helping You Is Killing Me.” With a clear and precise understanding, Everett Gates enlightens us on the power and pitfalls of being a servant. Penned with hands that have years of experience, this book is no theory, but a reality. I highly recommend this book to those striving to become great in the Kingdom of God.

Bishop Chris Dutruch
Senior Pastor, Celebration of Praise
Clermont, Florida

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